Welcome to the first of three blog posts which, I hope, will demystify the world of online shopping just a little bit. OK, so there are those of you out there who hardly venture into town any more and wouldn't dream of buying something in real life without researching every online shopping option online first, but for many women, shopping online just seems an awful lot like hard work, and certainly a lot more hard work than dashing into M&S and grabbing the first dozen or so items that look vaguely appropriate.
I initially wrote just one blog post on the whys, wheres and hows of online shopping, but it became so ridiculously wordy and gargantuan that I thought for the sake of somebody actually making it to the end, I'd better split it into a couple of posts:
- Why? Seriously, why bother with getting the postman to bring me clothes in three days' time when I could just nip into town and pick something up today, without the delivery charge? I'll tell you, and hopefully you'll believe me.
- How? OK, I'm convinced, but where do I start? How do I tell a good online shop from a bad one? I'll give you some tips, things to look for in good quality online shops, and ideas to save money and time while looking better than you ever have.
- Where? The internet is massive, woman! I don't know what to look for and where to find it. No problem. I've got a list of websites that I rely on, and ideas for finding your own favourites.
So, Why shop online? That's a rather big question. Before I spout some of my big positives for online shopping, shall we frame it another way to start with? Why not shop online? Here are the most common reasons I hear for avoiding online shopping:
- Shipping is so expensive, I don't have to pay that when I go to the shops in person
- I just can't find what I want, the internet is too big
- It's so hard to tell what the quality is going to be like
- I can't tell what size I'll be, and I can't afford to order multiple sizes to try on
- I want to try things on before I buy them
I'm going to deal with each of those reasons before I move on to a few more reasons think you should give online shopping a try.
Expensive shipping
OK, so the chances are that if you order online you're going to have to pay shipping (unless you can find a free shipping discount code - more on discount codes a bit further on). But, unless you live right on the edge of a busy shopping centre, the chances are that going shopping to somewhere with much of a selection of shops holds some costs for you too - parking or bus fare is likely to be virtually as much as most online shops' shipping fees, and that's ignoring the possibility of stopping for a coffee or a bite to eat while you're out. And, even if I were to walk into town and drink only my bottle of tap water while out, for me it is worth spending a few pounds to save the 20 minute bus journey each way and the hassle of wrestling two bored boys around enough shops for me to have a chance of actually trying on some clothes that I like (NB: I am working on the assumption that dashing into M&S and grabbing the first dozen items you come across is not providing everything you need, shopping satisfaction or style -wise).
Finding what you want on the internet is difficult
Well, that depends what you mean by difficult. You know where Hobbs, M&S, H&M, Whistles, Monsoon or whatever shops you frequent are on the high street, right? Well, if you go to www.google.co.uk and type in the shop name you want, youll soon know where they are on the internet as well. For now we'll ignore the fact that there is a plethora of other shops on the internet, let's just start by realising that all of those shops you go into in real life have a home on the internet, and most of them are pretty easy to use. With a couple of exceptions (I'm look at you, Russell & Bromley, with your stupid 2003-esque website that doesn't yet offer online shopping despite promising it in 'early autumn 2012')
It's hard to tell what the quality will be like
This is an easy one with shops that you know in real life - you know what kind of quality to expect from H&M or New Look, right? Well, don't expect it to be better when you order online, and be aware that things always look more expensive in the website photos than they do at the store (realise that you may be tempted by thigns that you might walk straight past if they were hanging on a rail. This has uupsides and downsides). Likewise, you can expect a degree of quality from more expensive brands like Hobbs or some designer labels.
With shops you haven't come across in real life, it is usually a safe bet to assume that if the price is amazing for a pure wool jacket or a cashmere sweater, the chances are that it either isn't great quality wool or is badly constructed. There are exceptions (Uniqlo, for instance, does great quality cheap merino wool), but on the whole, work on the assumption that the price is going to reflect the quality, on the whole. If I come across a new online shop I will often google for reviews or mentions of it before ordering.
Sizing problems
If you're someone who normally takes two or more sizes into the fitting room in every shop, it's time to get acquainted with your actual measurements, rather than size labels on clothes. Most online shops offer a size guide (have a look around the listings description for a size guide link. On this pair of Net-A-Porter trousers, for instance, the size guide is to the right of the 'choose your size' menu). Most decent websites will have either an overall size guide or a size guide for each item, which should contain some measurements. Invest in a measuring tape (all of about £2 from a fabric shop) and measure yourself - over bust, underbust, waist and hip measurements are all useful, and be aware of the length measurements of garments, if given. Really good online shopping sites like Net-A-Porter and ASOS will also give you information on the size that the model in the picture is wearing, which can be helpful.
Some shops are still generous or mean, even though they have size guides, but I have had succcess demanding free returns or exchanges for items that patently don't fit in with their size guides, so don't panic too much about that.
Try before you buy
My solution to this is simply to only buy things that I am fairly sure will suit me. Knowing my colours and style means that I have a high success rate with internet shopping, so take a little time to think through the palette of colours already within your wardrobe and the style of clothes you like wearing before you buy. Don't be swayed by the fact that it looks wonderful on the model if you know full well that burgundy makes you look like a freshly dug corpse.
OK, so we've tackled the Why Not? Now for the Why? As well as just being able to tackle the problems above, I've got a few reasons why I think internet shopping can be not just as good as, but better than high street shopping.
Save a fortune
I'll talk more about this in the coming two posts, but seriously, online shopping can save you loads! Discount codes (always around if you are prepared to sign up for email updates/hunt around a bit/wait a few weeks for one to pop up), free shipping codes and simply cheaper prices, whether that's for the same brand on a different website, or finding an equivalent item in a different brand, due to the massive range avialble on the internet. This is particularly true of designer clothes, which can be found much cheaper on less-known websites (more on that in the coming posts).
Greater range
The usual high street suspects are all available online, so if any of them are missing from your actual high street (I haven't lived in a city with a French Connection or a Mango until very recently, and I like a lot of their clothes, for instance) you can probably find them online. As well as that, there are a whole host of shops that only appear online. Baukjen, Me&Em, the ubiquitous Boden and other great online-only (or London-and-online-only) finds can offer quality and prices not available on the high street, never mind the access to designer clothes at reasonable prices offered by some of the outlet websites. You can also use search websites to help you track down, say, every bright yellow blazer on the internet, rather than limiting you to the one you saw in John Lewis. I'll talk more about search websites and online-only shops in the coming posts.
Both of the above reasons mean that by shopping online it is often possible to jump up a quality level, without jumping up a price level. And that is always a good thing.
Less impulse buying
You might think that discovering shops at your fingertips would lead to a whole lot of impulse purchases. Just a few clicks, right? Well, it can do, but it's really no easier than whacking out your credit card in an actual shop, and if you're a sensible shopper who has an actual wardrobe plan and/or shopping list, online shopping can prevent you buying things that don't fit in your wardrobe or your life (if you're shopping at home you can go and look in your actual wardrobe before you buy to see if you have something similar that might work instead). The discipline of waiting for codes and discount vouchers also often means that the initial moment of lust can fade, giving you a chance to decide whether you really want to buy it.
Shop at your leisure
Instead of needing to buy the kids' school uniforms, a new pair of work trousers and a black tie dress for next weekend in the same trip, you can shop at your leisure, when the time is available. I quite often do my online shopping/research for shopping (online shopping allows a lot more research before purchasing, which means that the purchases are often more carefully thought through) in the early morning after Adam leaves for work but before the children get up. Rather than dragging them around the shops and getting everything in a mad rush, I can research work trousers one day, order the uniform from M&S online the next and hunt down the perfect evening dress on ebay or a designer outlet site the next.
Convinced yet? Any further objections? Let me know in the comments and I'll do my best to tackle them.